Incense in a Chinese Home: Temples, Tea Tables and Desks
Incense is used in China in more than one way, and the settings do not really overlap. Temple incense is an offering. Desk incense is for concentration. Tea table incense is part of the atmosphere around a pot. Buying one kind of stick and using it for all three is why some people find the habit overpowering.
At the temple
Incense offered at a temple is usually strong, inexpensive and burned in quantity. Three sticks is a common offering, lit and planted in a burner. The point is the act, not the perfume.

At the tea table
For tea, the incense should be quiet enough that you can still smell the tea. A short stick or a small amount of resin, burned before the session rather than through it, is the usual approach. Strong incense next to a lightly oxidised oolong will flatten the tea completely.
At the desk
The older use is the scholar's: a single stick while reading or writing, for focus rather than display. Agarwood and sandalwood dominate here. Both are woods rather than blends, which is why they smell different from the perfumed sticks sold as air fresheners.
Southern Song writing describes four pastimes repeated in the same breath: burning incense, whisking tea, hanging paintings and arranging flowers. The first two shared a table.
Ventilation and quantity
Indoor smoke is smoke. A room with no moving air will hold it, and the residue settles on everything. A little ventilation and one stick at a time costs nothing and makes the habit sustainable.
If you burn incense daily in a small room, ventilate anyway. This is about smoke, not about the type of incense.
Choosing and storing
Look at what is actually in the stick. Pure agarwood or sandalwood incense lists the wood. Blended incense lists it too, and often adds a binder such as tabu powder and a fragrance. Neither is wrong; they are simply different products at different prices.
Store sticks upright in a closed container, away from heat and strong light. Resin and wood both pick up surrounding smells, and a box kept next to spices will taste of them when it burns.
Holder matters less than you think
A ceramic holder with a deep ash bed does the job. What matters is that the stick sits steady, the ash lands somewhere, and the burner is wide enough that the tip does not touch the sides.
